I was asked to write my story... how far back do I go? Do I go back to the time my very religious father disillusioned me with religion?
Do I go back to waiting in the back seat of my moms car for her to leave the bar?
Nothing about “the real world” ever made sense to me.
My mother was a spiritual activist gypsy; my father a hard core Christian who desired a perfect credit score, a nice house, etc, and threw me out at age 15, when I wouldn’t let my stepmom put my perfect 80’s hair in hot rollers 😂🤷♀️
I never ever understood why the world worked the way it worked, except I always knew it wasn’t quite right.
I was always talking about [they]...
[they] lied about the JFK assassination I’d tell my grandma... who is [they] she always asked. I didn’t know but I could feel it.
I was always fascinated by the paranormal and anything that wasn’t mainstream. I searched many religions and philosophers trying to find a “truth”.
Fast forward to now. I still don’t have answers. I know I do not know. I have had a great many theories along the way.
I chose to be a stay at home mom to my children, even though it was tough. We didn’t strive for wealth. We strived for a simple home life. Teaching gardening, and simple ways.
I had my daughter’s later in life. My husband is almost 10 years older than me.
We stayed afloat. Him a Carpenter and part-time stage hand... me being my frugal creative self to make ends meet.
In December of 2018, my husband realized he’d landed his dream job... we could finally escape the decaying rental we had made our home for 8 years.
On January 28, 2019... after playing a very hard escape board game that was my birthday present (that we still joke caused it); my husband had a massive heart attack. We live in such a rural area that if I had waited for the ambulance he’d be dead. I scooped up my girls ( this was about 4:30 am) and we rushed to the hospital. He wouldn’t let us stay. After 30 minutes of him sitting in the waiting room a janitor alerted the nurses again a man was having a heart attack. They immediately got the ambulance there and rushed him to a bigger hospital on the next state. They put a stint in... prescribed medicine... he went home 2 days later with a 2 month battle of getting the meds right and 3 months of rehab.
Once returning to work, he was told he was no longer needed. I started applying for jobs and took the first one that hired me.
We survived for a few months off my paycheck and his income tax return.
He had sporadic work off and on from there. My $200/week kept our noses barely above water.
My sister in law asked if wanted to purchase a second vehicle from her. I jumped on it.
Someone turned the property we rent in for an overgrown lawn and the big tree that was struck by lightning over 3 years ago that destroyed the adjoining property’s garage. Even though we were current on Rent our landlord threatened us with eviction if we didn’t remove the tree and debris. We spent our electric bill $ on a chainsaw and my husband spent 2 days trying to tackle this tree. He ended up severely herniating 3 discs in his back that causes nerve damage to his sciatica. While I continued to work, our 8 year old was helping Daddy to the bathroom and taking care of the house with me.
Basically... we got so far behind, we couldn’t catch up, even though he is back to work, and I’m still working what hours I can.
Being evicted from here could be a blessing in disguise, I realize that. There is mold growing upstairs, floors are falling in, not one appliance works right... but we have no where else to go but our car. See I had started setting up a GoFundMe asking for a leg up to purchase my sister in law’s vehicle so I could get a 2nd job
and our work schedules wouldn’t conflict so much. We finally found an amazing babysitter for the girls if need be... both mine and his family live too far away to help with that.
We had to let our cell service go, and chose to keep internet on because it was cheeper as a way to still communicate with work, etc.
Let me back up a bit.
Our neighborhood recently went from well water (that we didn’t have to pay for) to county water. We had a HUGE water leak coming from a couple spigots attached to our house. Our landlords got to use our low income to avoid paying a high price to hook up to the new water, but we had to immediately replace the spigots so our personal water bill wouldn’t be through the roof. We were told they’d take $100 off our rent when we gave them the receipts. When I pointed out last weekend, when we FINALLY got caught up on rent, that $100 hadn’t been deducted...I mentioned it. they got mad, and gave us 8 days to come up with another months rent of $550. My car payment of $220 was due 11/14 and our car insurance was due a week before that. (Car insurance is paid as of today) my check this week just covered it. Hubby is waiting on shingles to be delivered to start Construction work, (and has been for a week)but does have a stage hand job tomorrow. They (our landlords) KNEW his stage hand work only pays every 2 weeks (next Friday)
So that’s my story... that’s where I am. No family that can help. The ones I’ve asked (like my dad) have their own problems (like loosing their Florida gated community home since my stepmom just got fired from her job) BUT Like every single one of us on the planet... we ALL struggle due to the evil powers that be... some of you played the game... used your talents... got degrees..whatever. I couldn’t stomach it at a young age, and can barely stomach it now... wealth over love.. it’s Not What Christ taught!!! it’s why I never could get past my college courses or sociology, religion, and philosophy. I chose not to play the game.... although I have no choice now. And I will work my ass off because now I see the Great Awakening I tried so desperately my WHOLE life to get others to see...